Be 'The One'
We always want to be someone's first thought in the morning, their last thought in the night. We want them to protect us in our absence, we want them to care for things enough. When there are fights over petty issues we try to forgive, forget & move ahead cause we think being kind is more important than being right We try to protect them in their absence, try to avoid conflicts that would bring distance between you and them. You teach them that you will always be there no matter what. But often, this being 'the one' ideology doesn't work with everyone, you will be mostly judged for being emotional, having lower self-esteem or maybe clingy. People will often teach you how you have to be 'the one' first for yourself, that's how life is. You need to surround yourself and find the once who believe in being 'the one'. Often in the rush of understanding others, we forget we need to be understood too. Do yourself a favor first be 'the one